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Posted on October 27th, 2010

One of the most powerful elements of practicing yoga is the application of non-attachment. In Sanskrit, there is a term called Vairagya that roughly translates as detachment, or renunciation, in particular renunciation from the pains and pleasures in the material world. The observance of Vairagya is in one notion a simple concept, but in practicality is a challenging practice.
Our attachment to material things, people, and experiences is what draws us away from freedom and connection to Self. By having a grounded connection to Self, we are able to disperse the burden of materialism: desire, the need to acquire, and the false sense of existence through the association to things and others.
In this exploration of non-attachment, I have found an interesting experiment to play with. Our first experience with becoming attached to the material world and being carried into an existence of clouded truth starts from the formation of vocabulary. When we are young, the words that are often learned first are ‘my’ and ‘mine’.
In practical terms, we do become owners of things, possessors of products, and connected through relationships. However, when we choose to observe non-attachment and strip away the concept of “ownership”, we realize the irrelevance of using these two burdening words. It is true that when we take on ownership of something, we usually take on a social, moral, or civil responsibility. For example, we purchase a home, we are responsible for taxes and upkeep. But as soon as we attach the labels of ‘my’ and ‘mine’ to this element of ownership, we readily link this material possession to who we are – we allow ourselves to become vulnerable to judgment, vulnerable to the miseries of loss, overcome by the burdens of acquiring more and satisfying the desires of attainment.
By acknowledging how powerful the words ‘my’ and ‘mine’ are, I have decided to explore ways to eliminate these words of illusion from the vocabulary I use (notice how I did not say ‘my vocabulary’). Shedding my vocabulary of these words is the first process of managing the manifestations of thought.
Consider addressing how you use the words ‘my’ and ‘mine’ in your vocabulary. How do these words vibrate in your state of thought and the way you flow through life? What associations are you possibly creating when you use these words. Our words are an end-result manifestation to what vibrations are emanating from our soul and reflect the level of connection we have to Self.
Article written by Kreg Weiss – cofounder and Yoga teacher on My Yoga Online.
Tags: Kreg Weiss, Inner Peace, Awareness, Body and Mind, sanskrit
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Thank you Kreg. One needs to be reminded of this concept all the time because the idea of attachment is so ingrained in most of us.We forget that non-attachment is the only way to experience freedom and happiness.
This is just a funny observation and definitely not intended as a harsh criticism of your great article, BUT, two words after you wrote (notice how I did not use "my vocabulary") you wrote "my vocabulary". Shows how hard it is to change:-)
about a year ago in Wagga Wagga, AU
kregweiss
Hi jblacklst, To address your last comment post, this blog post is a personal reflection/observation and no means a projection of how I would expect others to proceed in their spiritual lifestyle. This blog post is merely an opinion to present a concept in which others may wish to digest and allow their own personal reflection. Addressing your comments about religion, I am a practicing Christian of 39 years who embraces the positive qualities of all religions. Christians and members of all religions could fair well by shifting away from the lifestyle of attachments. I do not see, though, how in any way this blog post is directed any particular faith in terms of alienating. Kreg MyYogaOnline
By an expert about a year ago in verdun, CA
jblackst
While I respect all of your responses I cannot agree with the conclusions you have reached. Personally, kregweiss I think you would be wise to approach topics like this with some sensitivity. Not everyone who practices yoga is a Buddhist or subscribes to an Eastern philosophical worldview. While I most certainly DO affirm your right to evangelize for your own faith (though you might not be conscious of what you are doing) I think it would be a shame to needlessly make Christians like myself feel alienated.
about a year ago in Ottawa, CA
kregweiss
Hi Jill (jblacklist), A person can be abundant in physical and non-physical items including love without having any attachments. In fact, the more we have no attachment and labelling of 'my/mine', the more willing we are to share the abundance of love we have with others. Many people generate barriers and blockages of sharing due to attachments. In the concepts I present, one could readily replace words like 'my love for...' with 'the love within me...' as means to express the quality of warm emotion one wishes to share with others without using the labels of attachment. Namaste Kreg
By an expert about a year ago in verdun, CA
ameya
Non-doership is absolutely a key here. Just as dispassion. In order to repose in the Self fully, we must have this discipline established in our lives - and yes, we must learn to stop identifying with the small mind, the ego, the "my" and "mine" which can become so limiting. In the quest for self-knowledge, there is still so much we have yet to learn. With the help of a strong practice and a wise guide, this becomes so much simpler. Author and yoga/meditation teacher Michael Fischman beautifully illustrates this through his experience with Indian spiritual leader Sri Sri Ravi Shankar: www.stumblingintoinfinity.blogspot.com
about a year ago
GarethBruno
You feel the love of existence, true love is unconditional... The only reason we exist is because we don't, we are the space in which everything is created. Our soul is non-existent, and in feeling and knowing that, everything that is created is love its self. There is no real explanation of how we got here because everything has to start from something, there has to be a creator that cant be created and that is God, Pure space and silence. Where only here because there has to be existence to be non-existent...
2 years ago in Melbourne, AU
jblackst
Do you realize that this completely obliterates the possibility for love? Love is always an exchange between two people. If there is nothing that is "mine" (my body, my time, my energy, my money, etc.) then there is nothing to give. Life isn't about being happy...its about love.
2 years ago in Ottawa, CA
kregweiss
"Self" is a concept like everything else ... it is the part of the being that is connected to the universal flow ... since Self is an extension of the universal flow, there is no ownership of this and linking 'my' or 'mine' to "Self" is irrelevant ... addressing with Self is not a notion of ownership, but rather observance ... once one connects to Self, a realization surfaces that Self is everything, yet also nothing - unlimited potential for happiness, yet powerless in the material world - hence, the action and emotion of attainment and attachment becomes futile in the overall scheme to become happy. namaste Kreg MYO
By an expert 2 years ago in verdun, CA
jblackst
but....what is my "self" if it is not "mine"?
2 years ago in Ottawa, CA